What if you could redefine success through the lens of personal struggle and cultural identity? Join me, Raul Lopez, as I sit down with Carlene Fonseca, a dynamic leader who has transformed her experiences from Central Falls into a thriving career in leadership and community engagement. As the CEO and Chief Consultant of The Greatest You Consulting, Carlene opens up about her journey as a first-generation Cape Verdean-American, navigating cultural expectations, academic triumphs, and a late-in-life ADHD diagnosis. Together, we explore how she embodies more than just professional titles and her commitment to empowering others to reach their fullest potential.

We confront the harsh realities of adversity and its unexpected role in personal growth. From my own challenges with an emotionally turbulent household and childhood trauma, to Carlene’s transition from law enforcement to policy work, these stories underscore resilience and transformation. Through shared experiences, we discuss finding solace in academics and sports, and the importance of community involvement as a means to channel insecurities positively. Our conversation shines a light on the struggles faced by people of color and immigrants, highlighting the critical role of mental health awareness and self-worth in breaking free from toxic environments and embracing one’s true value.

Carlene and I also delve into the significant strides made in community development and wellness in Central Falls, showcasing initiatives like job fairs and wellness programs. We discuss personal growth through parenting, emphasizing open communication and gentle parenting methods that foster gratitude and self-acceptance. By reflecting on our journeys, we aim to inspire others to find fulfillment not just in overcoming challenges, but in embracing every moment of life. With honesty and empathy, we hope this conversation empowers you to transform adversity into a powerful tool for self-discovery and success.
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How do you prepare for life’s unexpected twists and turns? Join me, Raul Lopez, as I kick off Season Two of “How Do You Save Success in Spanglish?” by sharing a deeply personal journey that forced me to confront my own health vulnerabilities. It all began with a sudden onset of severe stomach pain on July 7th, which spiraled into a medical crisis involving emergency surgery and a suspected bowel obstruction. Amidst the chaos, I had to make a hurried call to inform my wife and grappled with the frightening realization of life’s unpredictability.

From the trauma of an NG tube to enduring multiple surgeries, I recount the relentless battle with recurring bowel obstructions and the emotional toll it took on me and my family. Balancing health, family responsibilities, and work seemed nearly impossible, especially as I faced significant weight loss and a slow, arduous road to recovery. The unwavering support of my loved ones became my anchor, reminding me of the importance of a cautious approach to regaining my strength and momentum.

As I emerged from this medical rollercoaster, life threw more challenges my way, from my daughter’s illness to a series of domestic mishaps. Yet, the excitement of returning to my podcast and reconnecting with you, my audience, fueled my resilience. I express my heartfelt gratitude for your unwavering support during my hiatus and promise more engaging content, even if it starts a bit rocky. Tune in for a hopeful look ahead and a sneak peek into our upcoming lesson: how to say “success” in Spanglish.